A Xenolith is a (beautiful) rock fragment that is actually foreign to the igneous rock in which it is imbedded. These lovelies get melded right in…embraced if you will…in the hard and mundane yet exuding their glory and sparkle with strength.
That is the picture of the betrayed…the broken…the abused…the destitute of spirit. Covered in the package of hurt, continuing to move through life looking bland and ordinary, we are stunningly beautiful in our core. That outer wrapping is foreign…it is the inner place that is authentic. We have received the worst of what humanity has to dole out, and we have survived. We were promised love and devotion and got manipulation and abandonment, yet we hang on and keep believing and hoping, whether in this person or another or in ourselves. That place, that incredible amazing place that somehow stays alive despite all odds that is wrapped in the layers of our being is nothing short of miraculous beauty. Like a xenolith.
And that human xenolith…we are also xenacious. Xenacious people yearn for change…deeply desire things could be different and don’t stop trying. That is a characteristic I find nearly uniform amongst people with deep wounds…
We want things to be different.
And we are willing to be part of the change.
Xenacious xenoliths are courage.
Xenacious xenoliths are badass.
How much damage is done to the Xenolith when somebody tries to pry it out of its prison? Does it crumble or does it emerge whole?
I think I used to be a xenacious xenolith….until I gave up but there’s still some “bad-assery” there. LOL
This was beautifully written!
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Thank you Laurel. You are shining so bright…amazing writing…really engaged heart with so many hurting people…you are an amazing BADASS!
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I wish I had been one forty years ago…and I was…just not in the right way. I’m thinking about being a bad ass in another way….LOL
It would be a little “awful” but I’m still thinking about doing it. LOL
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Two more new vocabulary words and exquisite insights. Love you!
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And you!!
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Very insightful and beautifully written. Thank you for sharing your heart in such an open, honest way. I look forward to reading more from you.
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I get such strength from people like you taking time to read and comment. Thank you.
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What a fascinating post. I haven’t come across such an interpretation before.
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Thank you, whimsicalcompass…what a great name! Can’t wait to learn more about you.
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You continually amaze me in your words and ability to create beautiful, hopeful pictures with them.
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What an encouragement-thank you-
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Yes…I am a xenacious xenolith…..and a badass. Definitely a badass. Thank you my friend. This is such a beautiful post. Love to you!
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Thank YOU, Leigh!!!! You’ve totally inspired badass for us!!
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#badass #keepitup #cantholdyoudown
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